But this becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, because even small children want to live up to the expectations placed on them. Because then you unconsciously pass them on," says Verlan. Bonobos are considered the closest living relative to us humans, and are known for seeking sexual pleasure. So we should pay much more attention to the particularities of our child than to the sex of the child. The Layson albatross, which nests in Hawaii, is known for its large number of homosexual partnerships. The chicks are often fathered by males that are already in another committed relationship. In the bottlenose world, homosexual activity occurs with about the same frequency as heterosexual play.