I seem to like being dominant but I like for him to be to as well. There are a lot of different variations, which you will find below. Hi Jae, The best thing to do is to talk to him so that he understands where you are coming from. The only position I can orgasim in is the cowgirl, how do I orgasim other ways and positions? Hi Renate, The most important thing is communicating this to your man, so that in the moment he is aware that he may be hurting you. Let me know how you get on! Find out why and see if you can address those problems. I am just having one problem. Also, any list of anal positions?