Wise says the most important part of masturbation is simply to "savor the sensation" and not set out with the intention of orgasm. For one, it may help you get more comfortable in bed. Rock your hips to the rhythm of the vibration, or move your pelvis in a circular, 8-style motion. Now, all that good stuff said, the only problem is not knowing how to start to guarantee a better finish. Because as one Women's Health writer learned : Rhe more you masturbate, the more you want to masturbate. That's because using your mind to zero in on the pleasure can seriously enhance your orgasm. That is, once you find it easier said than done—just ask your ex. It gently pulls an orgasm out of you.