She can use her fingers or mouth on you, or both simultaneously! Check out our new podcast, I Want It That Way , which delves into the difficult and downright dirty parts of a relationship, and find more on our Soundcloud page. She can easily take a break from focusing on you to come up for kisses or to pay attention to your breasts. You can control the pressure by pulling your body away or pressing down. Stand up on the bed, and carefully place one foot on either side of her head. How to do it: Both of you get on your knees. This position is best for oral sex, but she can also use her fingers or a sex toy in your vagina or ass.